When I post a post, really the post is posted?

[nebiun]

How long time after that a post was sent, the post is read and or refused/published?
And, how I can know if my post was refused?

Thanks,
Nebiun

[WinterMute]

Unfortunately the answer is it takes as long as it takes - i.e. once a moderator gets around to reading it.

This only happens for the first few posts you make - once enough have been approved manually then they no longer need to be reviewed. Sadly this seems to be our best defence against the board being filled with adverts for fake designer goods and pervert pills.